
Find Clarity, Regain Stability, and Discover Your Next Steps
If you’re reeling from the aftermath of an affair, the emotional chaos and uncertainty might feel overwhelming. But this doesn’t have to be the end of your story. It can be the beginning of clarity and transformation.
This video is from my website Soaring High Counseling, and will give you an idea of how I work with couples 👩❤️👨 👩🏽❤️👩🏾

Pretty sure you're over feeling hurt, confused, and lonely?
Do any of the following ring any bells?
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You feel lost in the emotional chaos
You're looking for tools to stabilize and make sense of your feelings.
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You're struggling to communicate
You want to approach conversations with clarity and purpose, even amidst pain.
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You’re unsure how to talk to your children.
You need guidance on addressing the affair in a way that supports your family’s well-being.
...If that's you, then welcome to From Chaos to Clarity: Immediate Steps After Infidelity


What makes this course different?
Unlike generic advice or programs that overlook your unique challenges, this course is:
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Tailored for couples with children. You’ll learn strategies that balance personal healing with parenting responsibilities.
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Focused on clarity and action. This isn’t about quick fixes or vague advice. It’s about giving you the tools to regain control and move forward with purpose.
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Rooted in professional expertise. As a licensed marriage family therapist with a Ph.D. in psychology, I’ve worked with countless couples navigating similar journeys.

What You’ll Achieve
By the end of this course, you will:
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Understand and manage the emotional chaos with grounding techniques that bring stability.
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Communicate effectively during this sensitive time, avoiding common pitfalls.
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Support your children with age-appropriate strategies to address the affair compassionately.
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Establish healthy boundaries and make informed decisions about your next steps.
But don't just take my word for it....


Josh K.
I really liked working with Cathryn. She has a lot of knowledge and experience that she brings to the table. I highly recommend her!!


Marjorie R.
Cathryn helped me and my husband work through some tough issues and I'm happy to say we are back together and happier than ever!
Growth often comes from discomfort, teaching us lessons we didn’t know we needed
- Rebuilding trust takes time, but every small act of honesty lays the foundation for something stronger.
- It’s okay to be a work in progress; transformation happens one day at a time.
- Even in the darkest moments, the possibility of light remains.

Imagine...
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Having a guide to support you every step of the way.
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Having clear, specific steps to navigate difficult conversations with clarity and compassion.
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Having the understanding of the importance of boundaries during the healing process.

What's Included
#1-Lifetime access to the course
Work through the content at your own pace with exercises that enable you to apply what you learn directly to your situation.
#2- Video introductions for each module
Hear directly from me as I guide you through every step in the process.
#3- Bonus Resources for Parents
Additional tools to support your children during this difficult time.

How do I know if I'm ready?
Perfect for you if:
- You feel lost in the emotional chaos. You're looking for tools to stabilize and make sense of your feelings.
- You're struggling to communicate. You want to approach conversations with clarity and purpose, even amidst pain.
- You're unsure how to talk to your children. You need guidance on how to address the affair in a way that supports your family's well-being.
- You want a clear path forward. Whether that means taking space, setting boundaries, or seeking professional help, you're ready for actionable steps.
Not for you if:
- You're seeking marriage counseling. This program focuses on the immediate aftermath and finding clarity, not on rebuilding the relationship...that comes later...if you want.
- You're not ready to take action. The course requires active participation to achieve results.
- You're looking for a quick fix. Healing and clarity take time, effort, and commitment.

Let's take a look at what's inside
Module 1: Understanding the Emotional Chaos
- Learn the psychological and emotional impacts of an affair
- Identify and process your feelings with guided tools.
Module 2: Stabilizing Reactions and Grounding Techniques
- Develop strategies to manage overwhelming emotions.
- Practice techiques to stay grounded in triggering moments.
Module 3: Communication in the Immediate Aftermath.
- Navigate difficult conversations with clarity and compassion.
- Understand how to express your needs and listen effectively.
Module 4: Addressing Children about the Affair - A Compassionate Approach
- Learn age-appropriate ways to talk to your children.
- Support your kids emotionally while maintaining their sense of security.
Module 5: Taking Space and Setting Boundaries
- Understand the importance of boundaries during the healing process.
- Learn how to create a safe space for individual reflection and growth.
Module 6: The Next Step - Seeking Professional Help
- Explore when and how to seek therapy or counseling.
- Gain insights into finding the right professional help for your jouney.
A Note From Dr. Cathryn Leff
HI, I'm so glad you're here. I've been privileged to work with couples and families for over two decades, helping them navigate challenges and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. I earned my B.A. in Psychology from UCLA and M.A. in Counseling Psychology from Pepperdine University, followed by my Ph.D. in Psychology from Northcentral University.
This course was thoughtfully designed based on my years of experience working closely with couples and their families. It combines proven strategies and practical tools to help you move forward with clarity, connection, and hope. Whether you're here to heal, rebuild, or strengthen your relationship, know that you're in the right place - and you don't have to do this alone. Let's get started!


How to Prepare for the Course
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Have a Notebook Handy
It helps to take notes as you go through the course. This will help you remember how to respond when things get tough. Refer back to your notes often, or rewatch the module.
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Refrain from Calling Out Your Partner
There may be a time during a module where something negative reminds you of your partner. Don't point that out to him or her. This is counterproductive.
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Don't Decide Anything Now
The aftermath of an affair is often traumatic and individuals are not thinking straight. Wait until you complete the course and then decide together, if possible, what will be the next steps.
I'M IN!Here's What Others Are Saying...


Clarissa P.
Dr. Cathryn helped me find my footing after a very traumatic discovery of my husband's infidelity.


Jaylen C.
Dr. Leff helped us understand the dynamics of our relationship which helped me to grow and forgive myself.

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IS THERE A GUARANTEE?
Yes! A 100% Money Back Guarantee
This product has a 14 day money back guarantee. If you work through the first two modules of this course and are not completely satisfied we will refund your money. Refunds must be requested in writing within this refund period.

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